The road to success is long and full of sacrifice. No one is going to hold your hand to help you through it. The Road to Success Starts With No Excuse
In belief, success means NO excuses. If you make excuses for your life, then I believe you are not successful and you should be grateful that you're alive! Success does not happen in a day. It's true. You cannot go to the movies and expect to see the lead character win the day. This is especially true if he is a misogynist, a bully, a bully who wins the day.
Perhaps you will be able to motivate someone to work harder and to get better at the game you are playing but you can't take their full-blown emotional meltdown. Perhaps you will be able to motivate them to go further in the game you are playing but you can't take it away from them after the game is over. Responsibility means you have to do your job. Doing your job well means doing it right.
How is a person expected to do their job well if they don't take responsibility? But there is a big difference between taking responsibility disguised as acceptance. Acceptance means you are going to do what you have to do.
You either accept responsibility or you are not accepted for who you are. Acceptance is the only true path to success. Blame is worthless. It's not for anything.
Change comes with change. If you don't like the changes that are happening in your life, then move on to something else. What do you have to lose by changing your beliefs and attitude about wealth? Quite a lot, actually. Blame is real. It is real but it is also unnecessary.
Realize that you have control over your life. You are not like everyone else and you do not have to fit into the box you've been given. You have all the power you need to make the changes you want in your life.