When we are angry, we blame others for our troubles. We blame others for our inability to accomplish our goals, our inability to get along with others, our inability to be successful, and many other circumstances in life. In addition, when we are angry, we expect others to perform. People are really good at recognizing when they are being blamed and therefore are apt to want to apologize, which is a mistake.
I have discovered that when you set aside your anger and put your attention on something else, you will see life differently. Blaming to blessings may work for a short time. However, when we are walking in the realm of forgiveness, we realize that all things are not bad. Everything is simply part of God's plan and is meant to be enjoyed. In order to stop blaming to blessings, we must forgive those who have done us wrong, first.
The anger and the desire to hurt others are not healthy. It leads to grief and suffering. It destroys relationships and peace. It breeds contempt and jealousy. It clouds the vision and reduces success.
You can choose anger or any other emotion for that matter, but you do not have to allow it to control your life. Anger that is allowed to flourish will lead to destruction. You can remain calm and in control of yourself by learning to remain focused and listening to your inner wisdom. By being in control of yourself you will not be controlled by others and will be able to make better decisions. You will be more successful because you will be more mindful of your actions. Anger breeds deceit, but when you remain focused you will be able to act based on your true feelings.
Remember that God is love and He wants to help you succeed. As angry people often say, "I don't want what I can't have." We often blame the world or other people when we fail. But instead of blaming others we should blame ourselves. Blaming others and saying things like, "You never kiss your girl," shows our lack of self-confidence. Instead of saying, "Why are you angry all the time," try saying, "I'm just angry sometimes."
By changing our behavior and replacing anger with trust and faith we will be happier. When we are happy we are at peace. When we are at peace we are blessed. And when we are blessed we receive blessings.
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